Fantasy Fishbowl: Intimate and Erotic Play Dates
Here’s a fantasy-generator and exploration tool that combines discovery and a taste of adventure. Write some hot, fun, sexy ideas on small papers or cards and put them into a fishbowl or similar container. Then—taking turns—select a paper from the bowl and read it aloud. You might experiment reading the fantasies in different dramatic voices—shy, coy, flirtatious, outraged, zany. You might share about how the fantasy affected you as reader or listener; maybe play with the fantasy (by building it out round-robin style into a story and noticing what develops). Each you of can indicate whether you’d consider “ever doing them” and also, if any of these suggestions might be on the menu for tonight.…